Refined Treasures
presents
Unveiled to Lead
The First Annual Mother & Daughter Conference & Dinner
More than a beautiful afternoon together,
The beginning of a year-long journey of growth, connection and mentorship.
An enriching experience created for girls and young women, and the mothers or guardians walking alongside them.
A dinner for girls and the mothers or guardians raising them,
DATE: 12th Sept, 2026.
TIME: 3:00 PM GMT.
WHERE: United Kingdom, Sheffield .
Growing Up Is Different Today. She should not have to navigate it alone.
Social media tells her how she should look.
Friends can influence what she believes she should want.
Culture places expectations on who she should become.
And somewhere amongst all that noise, it can become difficult for a young girl to hear and trust her own voice
Refined Treasures exists to change that.
We are a mentoring and empowerment community for girls and young women aged 12 to 20, intentionally created to help them understand who they are, develop confidence, make wise choices, care for their wellbeing and grow into women of character, purpose and influence.
On 12 September, mothers, guardians and daughters will come together for an unforgettable afternoon of elegant dining, connection, conversation, learning, laughter and reflection.
But the conference is only the beginning.
From that day, she steps into a mentorship journey designed to help her grow through the seasons ahead.
She does not need another voice telling her who to be.
She needs a safe place that helps her discover who she already is and who she can become.
WHAT SHE LEARNS WITH US
Everything a girl needs, taught properly
Across the year, we explore practical areas that shape the woman she is becoming, guided by accomplished women with knowledge, experience and a genuine commitment to seeing the next generation flourish.
01
Self Awareness
Helping her understand herself, her strengths, values, emotions, personality and boundaries; and how to tell her own voice apart from everyone else's.
02
Mental and Emotional Wellbeing
Helping her understand anxiety, pressure, comparison, disappointment, rejection and emotional resilience. Most importantly, she learns that asking for help is a strength and how to recognise when she needs support.
03
Physical Health and Wellbeing
Helping her understand and respect her changing body. Food, rest, exercise, and the health matters young women are rarely told about early enough.
04
Social Media and Digital Life
Teaching her to use technology without allowing technology to define her. She learns about online safety, digital boundaries, healthy social media habits and building a digital footprint she can remain proud of years from now.
05
Etiquette and Presence
Helping her carry herself confidently and graciously wherever life takes her. From introductions and conversations to dining etiquette, social confidence and professional environments, she develops the small habits that often make a lasting impression.
06
Communication and Public Speaking
Helping her find her voice and use it well. She learns to express herself clearly, communicate confidently, speak before others, navigate difficult conversations and communicate professionally in writing.
07
Relationships and Boundaries
She learns how to recognise healthy relationships, communicate her boundaries and say no without feeling guilty for protecting what matters.
08
Leadership
She learns principles of leadership, team leadership, handling disagreement, making decisions, and owning it when things go wrong.
09
Purpose and Career
Working out what she is here to do. School choices, first jobs, interviews, and building a path without panicking about having it all figured out.
10
Money Sense
She learns the principles of Budgeting, saving, understanding what things really cost, and making money decisions that do not just follow the crowd.
11
Civic and Policy Awareness
How decisions get made in her school, her community and her country. Her rights, her voice, and how to use both.
12
Values and Integrity
Deciding what she stands for before life asks her to prove it. She learns how to make decisions rooted in her values and maintain her integrity, even when doing the right thing is unpopular or uncomfortable.
WHAT HOLDS IT TOGETHER
Four Questions That Shape Everything We Do
Every conversation, mentorship session and experience within Refined Treasures connects back to four foundational questions.
Whatever the topic that month, it always answers one of these four.
Identity
Who am I?
Taking off the labels she was handed, so she can see herself clearly.
Purpose
Why am I here?
Finding her gifts, discovering her strengths and her direction, at her own pace.
Presence
How do I show up?
Helping her develop the confidence, communication and social awareness to walk comfortably into different spaces without losing herself.
Integrity
What do I stand for?
Doing what is right, even when nobody is checking.
What happens after that night is over
When the evening ends, the journey continues…
Every month, for the girls. Virtual mentorship sessions
Once every month, the girls come together online for an interactive mentorship session focused on one of the key areas within the Refined Treasures programme.
Sessions are led by accomplished women bringing both professional expertise and real-life experience.
Our mentors include women across fields such as:
Medicine | Law | Business | Technology | Academia | Communications | The Arts | Public Service
The girls will experience: .
◆ Honest, age-appropriate conversations about real-life issues
◆ Access to women they can learn from and look up to
◆ Opportunities to ask questions in a safe environment
◆ Practical activities and tools they can apply immediately
◆ Recorded sessions they can revisit
◆ A supportive community where she is known for who she is, not by her follower count
Every quarter, for mothers and guardians.
Four times a year, the women raising these girls meet for their own session, discussing topical issues that affect our young girls. Because when the women raising our girls feel informed, encouraged and supported, the girls benefit too
◆ Rich, enlightening conversations that provide Practical guidance and support
◆ A group chat that stays active in between, so nobody is doing this alone
◆ Clear updates, so you always know what your daughter is being taught
Different Ages. Different Questions. Different Support.
A 12-year-old and a 25-year-old are navigating very different seasons of life.
That is why Refined Treasures does not use a one-size-fits-all approach.
Girls and young women are supported according to the life stage they are currently navigating.
AGES 12–15
DISCOVERY
“Who am I becoming?”
These are important years of identity formation.
- School life
- Friendships
- Peer pressure
- Her changing body
- Confidence and self-image
- Emotional wellbeing
- Social media
- Values and boundaries
AGES 16–18
PREPARATION
“How do I prepare for what comes next?”
She begins making increasingly important decisions about her future.
- Exams and academic pressure
- University and career decisions
- Friendships and relationships
- Personal boundaries
- Communication
- First jobs
- Interviews
- Independence
- Making confident choices without simply following the crowd
- Values and boundaries
AGES 19–21
DEPLOYMENT
“How do I build the life I want to lead?”
As she enters university, employment and independent adulthood, the conversation evolves.
- Career development
- Purpose
- Leadership
- Financial independence
- Relationships
- Living independently
- Personal values
- Professional presence
- Emotional wellbeing
- Building healthy support system
THE EVENING ITSELF
What the night looks like
One Afternoon. Shared Memories. Meaningful Conversations.
On Saturday, 12 September 2026, mothers, guardians and daughters will gather in Sheffield for an uplifting afternoon designed to strengthen connection and mark the beginning of the Refined Treasures journey.
The welcome
Every girl is received properly and given her welcome package, including her journal and her copy of the Refined Declaration.
Together at the table
Good food. Laughter. Games. Conversation. Mothers, guardians and daughters will share the table together through intentionally designed experiences that encourage connection before we move into deeper conversations.
Inspiring Conversations
Hear from accomplished women who will share openly about leadership, purpose, relationships, resilience, identity and navigating different seasons of life. Not simply stories of success, but the lessons, decisions, setbacks and courage behind them.
Mother & Daughter Moments
Dedicated experiences will create space for mothers and daughters to pause, talk, listen and appreciate one another. Because sometimes the conversations that matter most simply need the right environment to begin.
The Unveiling
The manifesto is read out, the community officially opens, and the first members sign their names to it.
And our first generation of girls begins the journey of becoming women who are:
Grounded in identity.
Clear in purpose.
Confident in presence.
Unshakeable in integrity.
The HOST & Speakers
Grace Badejo
Speaker
Uwa Agbogun
Host
